Its part of the business and part of life,rather a major part of life ,Meeting new people.
Categorizing it into three categories:
The First Category of meetings go totally insignificant , may be so unnoticed that we even forget the person’s name whom we met in the due course of time.
The Second category is a set of people who are so deep routed in our lives like parents , family , best friends that we cant call them “PEOPLE WE MET”. They are part of life. They ought to influence our lives and thus they do.
The Third Category is those amazing people whom, maybe we meet for a very short time , But the impact they make on our lives is magical.
What I am today is by the influence of atleast a dozen of such fantastic people. My life AFTER WE MET has changed. I like to call these people Charmers. They have hypnotized me for a life time may be influencing just one change , strong enough to make me look like a different person.
It was just One person who was initially responsible for filling the fever of MUSIC in my life which is fortunately still running.
One girl whom I met in my tutions unknowingly taught me how easy it is not to INTERFERE in others life and not to bitch about others.(I wish I could convey her as to how difficult it can be to resist gossiping ;) . Sorry to say I am yet to adapt this quality completely J )
Once when cribbing about everything was my favourite hobby, came in a person who successfully taught that there is something called ENJOYING THE PRESENT. (While I am writing this I realize I haven’t completely stopped cribbing although ;) . The percentage has reduced J ) .
When I was scared of learning something totally new with the fear of being “Jack of all and Master of none” ,I found this person who conveyed as to how EXCITING and thrilling it would get while you learn something new. It could be a new musical instrument ,a new language even a new abuse word ;) (To use in inevitable situations)
I am sure everyone of us will have encountered such charmers at one or the other stage of life. I forgot to mention an important fact (May be I was too absorbed in the rewinds of my life.) . Most of these beautiful people who have inspired me are unaware that they have played such a key role in my life. Even more interesting is the fact that I am just a person of the first category in their lives. If I go and try speaking to these people now they might even say “Sorry I forgot your name ”(So why take the risk of telling them that they inspired me once ;) )
Though all of us can’t be inspirations in others’ lives, its still an achievement if we are successful atleast in not making a negative impact in anybody’s life
Feeling the after effects of many meetings,
-Charita
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